The Developer Feedback Hack You Need to Know
The Power of Pair Programming: Beyond Code
Pair programming is an invaluable tool for learning and growth, not just in technical skills but also in understanding the human element.
Recently, while pairing on a Vue.js/Node.js application, I experienced a powerful reminder of this. My partner, a highly skilled developer, initially struggled with a particular task. My initial impression was that they might be lacking in certain skills.
However, they later shared that a family member was facing a serious illness. This shared vulnerability provided crucial context. It highlighted how personal challenges can significantly impact our performance at work.
This experience reinforced the importance of:
Active Listening: Truly listen to your pairing partner, reflecting on their words and retaining key information. "What I hear you saying is..." can be a powerful tool for active listening.
Empathy: Understand that everyone has personal challenges. Avoid defensiveness when receiving feedback and be mindful of their personal space.
Support: Show appreciation for their openness and vulnerability. Remember that sharing feedback, especially personal details, can be challenging.
By cultivating these qualities, we can build stronger relationships with our colleagues, foster a more supportive work environment, and ultimately become better developers and team players.